I better warn everyone that I'm going to toot my own horn for just a minute =) I was diagnosed with Gestational Diabetes with this pregnancy and it was really tough to adjust to a new diet and to prick my fingers multiple times throughout the days but at my last appointment my doctor said that my blood sugar numbers were so good that I didn't have to check them anymore. Hooray!! I'm pretty competitive and am proud to say I beat diabetes! So, if anyone happens to get it, don't let it scare you. If I can do it, anyone can.
So I have roughly 2 weeks before my new little angel gets here. Eeek (this is both an incredibly excited and incredibly scared eeek)! I was just wondering if any of you wonderful women out there had any tips about what to do to make your hospital stay easier. Not that I had a bad experience last time (the nurses and staff were wonderful) but I'm just not the biggest fan of staying in hospitals in general. Were there things you wished you brought? Things you did that you were so happy that you did? Things for before and after the birth...anything. So, if you'd be so kind as to share your secrets and such with me I would love it!! Thank you and I hope everyone is having a fabulous day!
Thursday, December 2, 2010
Friday, November 26, 2010
Thankful for...
Peter and I wanted to do a thankful list so here it goes...
Heidi
1. My Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ
2. The Gospel-I have no idea where I would be without it, but I know I wouldn't be where I am today and I can't even fathom that idea.
3. Peter-The love of my life, the milk to my milkshake =) He is my best friend and with him by my side everything seems a little brighter.
4. My precious Olivia. She has got to be the cutest thing in the world! She is truly such a joy.
5. For family. People who love us no matter what and are willing to support us in so many ways.
Peter
I don't often write on the blog... in fact I think this is my first time. So much pressure:).
My number one right now is that I'm thankful for such a wonderful wife who loves kids, who loves me(some times it's harder than others :)) and who never ceases to amaze me with her everlasting love.
I am thankful for our wonderful daughter Olivia. She is such a bright spot in my life. I can't go a day without her melting away my stress with her precious little smile.
I am thankful for the Gospel of Jesus Christ and for living prophets who lead and guide us. Never has there been a better time to live on this earth than now with the plethora of guidence and direction from heaven.
I am thankful for temples and for the fact that my family can be a forever family.
I am thankful for wonderful parents who taught me all I know. Who lead and guide with love and by example.
I am grateful for wonderful parents in law who love me, like I said, not always easy. They are truly the best parents in law I could have ever dreamed of.
I am grateful for my siblings and their spouses/children.
I could go on and on, but I'll spare you... okay one last one. I am grateful for the opportunity to gain an education. My education at BYU-Idaho has expanded my mind so much than I ever could have imagined.
So there you are. Pete's 2010 thankful list. Pete signing off.
Happy Thanksgiving Everyone!!!
Heidi
1. My Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ
2. The Gospel-I have no idea where I would be without it, but I know I wouldn't be where I am today and I can't even fathom that idea.
3. Peter-The love of my life, the milk to my milkshake =) He is my best friend and with him by my side everything seems a little brighter.
4. My precious Olivia. She has got to be the cutest thing in the world! She is truly such a joy.
5. For family. People who love us no matter what and are willing to support us in so many ways.
Peter
I don't often write on the blog... in fact I think this is my first time. So much pressure:).
My number one right now is that I'm thankful for such a wonderful wife who loves kids, who loves me(some times it's harder than others :)) and who never ceases to amaze me with her everlasting love.
I am thankful for our wonderful daughter Olivia. She is such a bright spot in my life. I can't go a day without her melting away my stress with her precious little smile.
I am thankful for the Gospel of Jesus Christ and for living prophets who lead and guide us. Never has there been a better time to live on this earth than now with the plethora of guidence and direction from heaven.
I am thankful for temples and for the fact that my family can be a forever family.
I am thankful for wonderful parents who taught me all I know. Who lead and guide with love and by example.
I am grateful for wonderful parents in law who love me, like I said, not always easy. They are truly the best parents in law I could have ever dreamed of.
I am grateful for my siblings and their spouses/children.
I could go on and on, but I'll spare you... okay one last one. I am grateful for the opportunity to gain an education. My education at BYU-Idaho has expanded my mind so much than I ever could have imagined.
So there you are. Pete's 2010 thankful list. Pete signing off.
Happy Thanksgiving Everyone!!!
Where Do I Begin?
Tis the season! I can't believe Thanksgiving has come and gone already. This year has seemed to fly by without me knowing it. So, I'm sure all of you here in the Southeast Idaho area can agree that Monday and Tuesday were both super crazy weather days. Since I wasn't planning on going farther from my home than my sister-in-law's home, which is just around the corner, I wasn't too nervous about it. Well, Monday rolled around and Peter and I were so excited because we were going to pick up his brother, Josh and his family (consisting of his incredible wife Roxanne and their cute little boy J. Will) from the Idaho Falls airport, my wonderful mom let us borrow her mini-van so we could all fit. Well, we bundled up and started on our way. It took us about an hour to get there. It still amazes me how hard the wind can blow here. Well, Josh and company were coming from Arizona and even though they've lived here before for years, I still think they were pretty shocked at how cold and windy it gets. We did make it home eventually and Livy and J. Will hit it off right away and talked most of the car ride. I LOVE when babies talk to each other.
So, fast forward to Tuesday. Peter had been feeling kinda icky the last few days but by Tuesday he was pretty sick with a sore throat and a bad cold so I decided I needed to get into town (we live out in Lyman on the way to Big Judd's for those of you who don't know that yet) to get him some good medicine so he'd be feeling good by Thanksgiving. The wind was blowing fiercely throughout the night and I barely made it out of our driveway, but I powered through and was on my way. The trip to town and back was pretty uneventful until I turned onto our street and tried to get back into our driveway. Just past the first house on our street there is a wide open field and with the wind blowing I wouldn't see past the front of my car. Weirdly enough, I was grateful for the piles of snow on either side of the road from the plows because I nudged them a few times which saved me from going into ditches. Then I tried getting into the driveway. Pretty sure that ice hates cars that are trying to turn on it. So, I end up stuck with half my car sticking out into the road. I call my strong working man and he bundles up to come help me. We did leave Livy inside, but before anyone judges us for being horrible, negligent parents we left Peter's phone on speaker in her room (where she was napping) so I could hear her if she woke up on my phone. While I was waiting patiently for Peter to come help I was a little irked when this truck passed by me...twice, without even a sideways glance. HELLO!! I am a HUGE pregnant girl trying to dig my car out. Rude. Anyways, between Pete's huge muscles and my thinking of using our car mats for traction, we got back into our driveway. You may think this is the end of my story...oh no...so if you want to stop reading I don't blame you. Peter's family was due to roll in that evening so we were all pretty worried when the Blizzard Warnings, Road Closures, and Hazardous Driving Conditions started popping up on the radio and websites we were constantly checking. They left Orem at about 12:30 PM and didn't actually make it to Peter's sister's (Annalyn) house until about 7 PM. Geez... six and a half hours.
Now, rewind back to just after getting our car back into the driveway. I had Peter take his medicine and drink some herbal tea and relax so he'd start feeling better, then Annalyn's husband, Ryan, and Josh came to rescue us from a day of boredom in his Huge Man Truck. He got us all safely to his house where we could play games and socialize and wait for the rest of the family to make it safely. After hugs and greetings were done I was pretty anxious to get home before we couldn't. So Peter, Livy, and I piled into the backseat of the Huge Man Truck and we were on our way. As we turn up our street, we don't see it. It is white from drifts of snow and I'm thinking, "There's no way we're going to make it!" and we see a pair of headlights coming at us so we wait to see if whoever is coming will actually make it through. He does...barely. So, we're like, "We'll just follow this guy's tracks and be just fine." Oh, no. We hit the drifts and get about a truck length's in and get stuck. I mean stuck. And we're still about 150 yards from our house. Which may not seem far but with whiteout conditions, it is. So, Peter and I decide he just needs to tuck our precious Livy like a football and run and I would follow...slightly slower =) So we wrap her up tight and he goes for it. On my trek towards my porch light I couldn't believe Mother Nature's power. It's incredible. Unfortunately, once I got out of range from the truck's headlights I couldn't see much and I ended up twisting my ankle and falling pretty hard. Thankfully, neither the baby nor me were injured, just a swollen ankle and a good dose of being scared. Well, needless to say we made it home to our snug little house. I was pretty frazzled, hoping our little baby girl was ok and didn't suffer from her mother's clumsiness and just with walking in that weather, even for that short distance. Peter headed back out to help Ryan get out which he did thanks to some helpful people who were willing to stop and help. Livy was pretty scared. She wouldn't let us out of her sight or clutches. She was still smiling and her cheerful self but she needed some extra TLC before we could put her to bed that night. After this grand adventure I keep thinking how grateful I am to live in this day and age. I keep thinking of the pioneers and the fact that they had to walk for days and miles in weather like that, without proper clothing, the women weighed down with dresses and petticoats, and little ones so cold. I know it may seem silly, but I was gasping and freezing by the time I made it to my home and I just started crying thinking how happy I am to live here, to have a house, to have heat, and to be able to crawl into a warm, comfortable bed. I am just so thankful for everything in my life. I know it sounds pretty cliche, but I really am. So, thank you to all those who have played a roll in my life and continue to do so. There are a lot of you, and I'm so glad to have so many incredible people to look up to and go to for help and guidance. Most of all I am thankful to a loving Heavenly Father and to my Savior for never giving up on me and for providing the tools I need to better myself each day so that I can spend forever with those I love most. Hope everyone had a wonderful Thanksgiving, and thanks for sticking around long enough to read all of this =)
So, fast forward to Tuesday. Peter had been feeling kinda icky the last few days but by Tuesday he was pretty sick with a sore throat and a bad cold so I decided I needed to get into town (we live out in Lyman on the way to Big Judd's for those of you who don't know that yet) to get him some good medicine so he'd be feeling good by Thanksgiving. The wind was blowing fiercely throughout the night and I barely made it out of our driveway, but I powered through and was on my way. The trip to town and back was pretty uneventful until I turned onto our street and tried to get back into our driveway. Just past the first house on our street there is a wide open field and with the wind blowing I wouldn't see past the front of my car. Weirdly enough, I was grateful for the piles of snow on either side of the road from the plows because I nudged them a few times which saved me from going into ditches. Then I tried getting into the driveway. Pretty sure that ice hates cars that are trying to turn on it. So, I end up stuck with half my car sticking out into the road. I call my strong working man and he bundles up to come help me. We did leave Livy inside, but before anyone judges us for being horrible, negligent parents we left Peter's phone on speaker in her room (where she was napping) so I could hear her if she woke up on my phone. While I was waiting patiently for Peter to come help I was a little irked when this truck passed by me...twice, without even a sideways glance. HELLO!! I am a HUGE pregnant girl trying to dig my car out. Rude. Anyways, between Pete's huge muscles and my thinking of using our car mats for traction, we got back into our driveway. You may think this is the end of my story...oh no...so if you want to stop reading I don't blame you. Peter's family was due to roll in that evening so we were all pretty worried when the Blizzard Warnings, Road Closures, and Hazardous Driving Conditions started popping up on the radio and websites we were constantly checking. They left Orem at about 12:30 PM and didn't actually make it to Peter's sister's (Annalyn) house until about 7 PM. Geez... six and a half hours.
Now, rewind back to just after getting our car back into the driveway. I had Peter take his medicine and drink some herbal tea and relax so he'd start feeling better, then Annalyn's husband, Ryan, and Josh came to rescue us from a day of boredom in his Huge Man Truck. He got us all safely to his house where we could play games and socialize and wait for the rest of the family to make it safely. After hugs and greetings were done I was pretty anxious to get home before we couldn't. So Peter, Livy, and I piled into the backseat of the Huge Man Truck and we were on our way. As we turn up our street, we don't see it. It is white from drifts of snow and I'm thinking, "There's no way we're going to make it!" and we see a pair of headlights coming at us so we wait to see if whoever is coming will actually make it through. He does...barely. So, we're like, "We'll just follow this guy's tracks and be just fine." Oh, no. We hit the drifts and get about a truck length's in and get stuck. I mean stuck. And we're still about 150 yards from our house. Which may not seem far but with whiteout conditions, it is. So, Peter and I decide he just needs to tuck our precious Livy like a football and run and I would follow...slightly slower =) So we wrap her up tight and he goes for it. On my trek towards my porch light I couldn't believe Mother Nature's power. It's incredible. Unfortunately, once I got out of range from the truck's headlights I couldn't see much and I ended up twisting my ankle and falling pretty hard. Thankfully, neither the baby nor me were injured, just a swollen ankle and a good dose of being scared. Well, needless to say we made it home to our snug little house. I was pretty frazzled, hoping our little baby girl was ok and didn't suffer from her mother's clumsiness and just with walking in that weather, even for that short distance. Peter headed back out to help Ryan get out which he did thanks to some helpful people who were willing to stop and help. Livy was pretty scared. She wouldn't let us out of her sight or clutches. She was still smiling and her cheerful self but she needed some extra TLC before we could put her to bed that night. After this grand adventure I keep thinking how grateful I am to live in this day and age. I keep thinking of the pioneers and the fact that they had to walk for days and miles in weather like that, without proper clothing, the women weighed down with dresses and petticoats, and little ones so cold. I know it may seem silly, but I was gasping and freezing by the time I made it to my home and I just started crying thinking how happy I am to live here, to have a house, to have heat, and to be able to crawl into a warm, comfortable bed. I am just so thankful for everything in my life. I know it sounds pretty cliche, but I really am. So, thank you to all those who have played a roll in my life and continue to do so. There are a lot of you, and I'm so glad to have so many incredible people to look up to and go to for help and guidance. Most of all I am thankful to a loving Heavenly Father and to my Savior for never giving up on me and for providing the tools I need to better myself each day so that I can spend forever with those I love most. Hope everyone had a wonderful Thanksgiving, and thanks for sticking around long enough to read all of this =)
Monday, November 8, 2010
Long Overdue Pictures
Here are just some pictures from this last summer up til now. Pictures are way more fun than reading! =)
Peter and Livy getting ready for a ride
Pete and Livy and Doug and Emyli (our rockin friends) The girls LOVED it!!
Livy ready for our hay ride at Great-Grandma and Grandpa's. She's so cute!!
Livy's Halloween Costume (minus the leggings)
Heidi and Livy ready for the Trunk-or-Treat
Pete and Livy at the Trunk-or-Treat
Livy ready for treats
Livy had a rough night...getting out of the car one of her parents (I won't say who to avoid marital contention =) ) nailed her head on the roof and then shortly after she was so excited to get going that she tripped and smacked her forehead/nose on the sidewalk. We literally heard the smack...so sad! But she's tough and got up and kept going.
This is Heid at 33 weeks. Radiant...?
Just an updated picture of Peter and Heidi. XOXO
Well, I hope you enjoyed our photo update. Hope all of our friends and family are doing well. We sure love you all! Have a fabulous week!
Peter and Livy getting ready for a ride
Pete and Livy and Doug and Emyli (our rockin friends) The girls LOVED it!!
Livy ready for our hay ride at Great-Grandma and Grandpa's. She's so cute!!
Livy's Halloween Costume (minus the leggings)
Heidi and Livy ready for the Trunk-or-Treat
Pete and Livy at the Trunk-or-Treat
Livy ready for treats
Livy had a rough night...getting out of the car one of her parents (I won't say who to avoid marital contention =) ) nailed her head on the roof and then shortly after she was so excited to get going that she tripped and smacked her forehead/nose on the sidewalk. We literally heard the smack...so sad! But she's tough and got up and kept going.
This is Heid at 33 weeks. Radiant...?
Just an updated picture of Peter and Heidi. XOXO
Well, I hope you enjoyed our photo update. Hope all of our friends and family are doing well. We sure love you all! Have a fabulous week!
Friday, October 1, 2010
Just An Update...
I haven't been on here for a little while and Livy's napping so here I am! =) Here's what's happening with the Bensons:
Peter
Peter is now the big 2-5! A quarter of a century old =) We ate out and had french silk pie for dessert. Yum!
Forever my hard working man, Peter's putting in long study hours and work hours. But we're both so excited that after this semester he only has one more before he gets his Bachelor's! How great is that?! After that he'll be doing his internship, probably somewhere in Utah Valley. Then we'll start preparing for Grad School. We're growing up! =) He's the ever-caring husband and pampers me a little bit everyday. Livy loves when she hears her daddy walk in the door and goes running for her hug and kiss from him. He also has a way of making me laugh harder than I have ever in my life! Which is not good in my present state of having a hard time controlling my bladder already...Love him!
Livy Lu
Oh my Livy! She's coming up on 17 months and getting so so big! I've been extremely blessed in that she still takes 2 naps a day. Both about an hour and a half each which gives me much needed time to get things done and get a little extra rest. Livy's discovered the joy of coloring! This has been a BIG help during church. She is so great at leading us to things she wants/needs and will say thank you when prompted. She is starting to talk more and more. She can now say: Mama, Dada, Nana, Papa, tank-you, more, uh-huh, no, dink (drink), and the other day she said Hadley (who is Chris and Hydee's little man). Whenever she wakes up she yells, "Da da!" when she's ready to get out. She still loves her books and is now fascinated with babydolls. We're trying to teach her how to be soft with babies now. If anyone has suggestions to help us ease her into the transition of having a baby sister around, I would love to hear them. She'll be going into nursery in November. I can't believe my little baby is getting so big. She loves to dance to the Hairspray soundtrack! It is so so cute!
Heidi
As for me, I am 28 weeks along and am really starting to feel nervous about being a mom of two. Things are so great though. I'm helping with Achievement Days and really enjoying going to Relief Society and getting to know the great women in my ward. My knee's been giving me issues so I'll be getting fit for a good brace to hopefully help me out. I was able to decorate for my best friend's wedding reception and I was so happy for her and her new hubby! Married life is so much better than single (no offense to anyone out there still single). I love that I get to spend each day with my best friend and that he loves me so much! I really can't believe how blessed my life is, even with the struggles. Peter and Livy brighten each day and make me feel so loved.
Well, that's about it for now. Thanks to all our family and friends for their never ending love and support!
Peter
Peter is now the big 2-5! A quarter of a century old =) We ate out and had french silk pie for dessert. Yum!
Forever my hard working man, Peter's putting in long study hours and work hours. But we're both so excited that after this semester he only has one more before he gets his Bachelor's! How great is that?! After that he'll be doing his internship, probably somewhere in Utah Valley. Then we'll start preparing for Grad School. We're growing up! =) He's the ever-caring husband and pampers me a little bit everyday. Livy loves when she hears her daddy walk in the door and goes running for her hug and kiss from him. He also has a way of making me laugh harder than I have ever in my life! Which is not good in my present state of having a hard time controlling my bladder already...Love him!
Livy Lu
Oh my Livy! She's coming up on 17 months and getting so so big! I've been extremely blessed in that she still takes 2 naps a day. Both about an hour and a half each which gives me much needed time to get things done and get a little extra rest. Livy's discovered the joy of coloring! This has been a BIG help during church. She is so great at leading us to things she wants/needs and will say thank you when prompted. She is starting to talk more and more. She can now say: Mama, Dada, Nana, Papa, tank-you, more, uh-huh, no, dink (drink), and the other day she said Hadley (who is Chris and Hydee's little man). Whenever she wakes up she yells, "Da da!" when she's ready to get out. She still loves her books and is now fascinated with babydolls. We're trying to teach her how to be soft with babies now. If anyone has suggestions to help us ease her into the transition of having a baby sister around, I would love to hear them. She'll be going into nursery in November. I can't believe my little baby is getting so big. She loves to dance to the Hairspray soundtrack! It is so so cute!
Heidi
As for me, I am 28 weeks along and am really starting to feel nervous about being a mom of two. Things are so great though. I'm helping with Achievement Days and really enjoying going to Relief Society and getting to know the great women in my ward. My knee's been giving me issues so I'll be getting fit for a good brace to hopefully help me out. I was able to decorate for my best friend's wedding reception and I was so happy for her and her new hubby! Married life is so much better than single (no offense to anyone out there still single). I love that I get to spend each day with my best friend and that he loves me so much! I really can't believe how blessed my life is, even with the struggles. Peter and Livy brighten each day and make me feel so loved.
Well, that's about it for now. Thanks to all our family and friends for their never ending love and support!
Monday, September 13, 2010
Absence Makes the Heart Grow Fonder
So, Peter's been away for a Therapeutic Rec conference for the last two days and won't be back for another 2 and I miss him. Well, that's an understatement. I hate when I can't be with him. I am such a baby...I struggle when he has classes all day. Silly I know but what can I say, he's been the center of my universe for the last two and a half years. With him being gone I've come to realize how much I love this man. Peter is such a great person to be around. He's positive, strong, and great to look at if I do say so myself. I can't wait for him to get home.
I don't know about anyone else but I feel that a lot of times when I decide/resolve to do something better, that's when things start to test me. In my last entry I resolved to be better about dwelling on the positive things, but then things came up that weren't pleasant. I believe that when we're feeling our strongest, that's when Satan decides to step up his game and throw whatever he can at us, and since we're feeling strong I think Heavenly Father sees how we handle it and how much we grow from it. It's so wonderful knowing we'll never be faced with anything that He knows we can't handle.
Just a quick update on the Bensons before I sign off. As I said before, Peter's at a conference for his major and says he is learning a lot of useful stuff, which is great! He also got an internship for next summer!! I'm so happy for him. He'll be doing it at the state hospital in Provo, UT. So, sadly we'll be moving from my beloved Idaho and family but Peter's family lives in Orem so I'm so happy to have my other family close by. Peter is the best dad and husband. Every night he rubs my feet and back and bathes Livy and tucks her in. She is such a daddy's girl. The last two days she's been wandering from room to room saying, "Dada, dada?" and gets pretty sad when she can't find him. Livy is growing up so fast. She loves running around, playing with her baby, eating, reading, and going for walks. She is such a sweet heart. She gives big sloppy kisses and has the cutest little smiles. I love being a mom!! As for me I'm 26 weeks along and feeling anxious and excited all at once. We can't wait to meet our new addition. Well that's all sorry it jumps from one topic to the next, but hey, I'm doing it! =)
I don't know about anyone else but I feel that a lot of times when I decide/resolve to do something better, that's when things start to test me. In my last entry I resolved to be better about dwelling on the positive things, but then things came up that weren't pleasant. I believe that when we're feeling our strongest, that's when Satan decides to step up his game and throw whatever he can at us, and since we're feeling strong I think Heavenly Father sees how we handle it and how much we grow from it. It's so wonderful knowing we'll never be faced with anything that He knows we can't handle.
Just a quick update on the Bensons before I sign off. As I said before, Peter's at a conference for his major and says he is learning a lot of useful stuff, which is great! He also got an internship for next summer!! I'm so happy for him. He'll be doing it at the state hospital in Provo, UT. So, sadly we'll be moving from my beloved Idaho and family but Peter's family lives in Orem so I'm so happy to have my other family close by. Peter is the best dad and husband. Every night he rubs my feet and back and bathes Livy and tucks her in. She is such a daddy's girl. The last two days she's been wandering from room to room saying, "Dada, dada?" and gets pretty sad when she can't find him. Livy is growing up so fast. She loves running around, playing with her baby, eating, reading, and going for walks. She is such a sweet heart. She gives big sloppy kisses and has the cutest little smiles. I love being a mom!! As for me I'm 26 weeks along and feeling anxious and excited all at once. We can't wait to meet our new addition. Well that's all sorry it jumps from one topic to the next, but hey, I'm doing it! =)
Thursday, September 9, 2010
Counting My Blessings
I'm so grateful to be alive!!! Peter told me this quote he heard in one of his classes and I decided it would be a wonderful principal to apply to my daily life. "The grass is always greener on the side that you water." And it may sound cliche but, it is so true! I've really started reviewing past days and have come to the conclusion that my bad days are the days I'm focusing on the stupid little things that bother me or when I brew over something that's offended me or hurt my feelings. And I realized, "How lame am I?" I'm "watering" all the things that create a cloudy, stormy, gloomy atmosphere around me-I'm growing weeds in my life! So, I've decided it's time to pull the weeds, even the little ones that spread like fire and can pop out of no where and the ones that are rooted so deep I haven't had the courage to do anything about them. So, my goal is to focus on the blessings in my life more; so much more that I'll end up choking out the weeds.
Let's be honest though...I'm not going to be able to do this quickly or by myself. I've always been kinda emotional and weak but I feel like I've grown so much stronger, especially these last couple of years with getting married and starting our family. Thank heaven I have such a wonderful man in my life who's optimistic and strong and whose faith in me astounds me. Knowing I have a daughter who depends on my everyday has already helped me so much, also knowing we have another little angel on the way is helping me be more organized and to learn how to plan ahead. When I'm prepared I feel at peace and calm, which is great! I also know that it's impossible to look around me without seeing about a million things that I have been blessed with. I have wonderful families and friends who are so willing to offer support and strength when I need it. And these people outnumber everyone else who I feel aren't truly there for me, which is why I need to focus on those who uplift me rather than those who tear me down. My Peter is the most perfect match for me. Each morning I wake up next to him is a small miracle. Bringing children into this world is probably the scariest thing I'll ever do, but knowing I will have the Lord to help shape me into a good mother, as long as I am faithful, has brought great comfort when I start to doubt myself. I love living here! I love Idaho. I'll be sad to leave it for any amount of time. The natural beauty that surrounds me takes my breath away. I live in a country where I am free to be what I want to be. I have amazing parents who have set me on the course I'm still taking. I could go on and on but I won't =) From here on out I'm determined to water the positive aspects of my life and to pull out that weedwacker and get to work!
Saturday, August 28, 2010
One Of Those Days...
So, today's been one of those days where I realize how much I have to work on. Not only to improve myself, but to improve myself as a mother and wife. These days always seem to sneak up on my when I'm least expecting them. =) Don't get me wrong, days like today have shaped me into the person I am so far and hopefully I've improved over the years, so that's what I'm going to keep doing: just keep getting better.
Peter has been my constant motivator. He's so steady and strong that I know that I can lean and rely on him no matter what. I also know that he always has a way of making me feel like the most wonderful person on Earth, even when I'm down on myself the most. I love him so much and am so grateful that he helps me want to be a better person each day.
I know I'm not perfect and that I've made a lot of mistakes and probably hurt a few people along the way. There are times when I wish I could watch my past choices so I could know who these people are. I know being hurt by others, especially others who are close to you, can be one of the most trying and scarring moments. So, I guess as cheesy/lame as it is I'm just apologizing to anyone out there that I've done anything to hurt you or those close to you and to also thank the many of you who have forgiven me for my faults and shortcomings. Most of all I am so grateful for my Savior who provided the way for me to repent for my sins and faults, and who above all else loves me inside and out no matter what; who knows what I'm capable of and will always give me little reminders that I'm not reaching for that potential, and shows me ways to get back on track.
I still have about four months left before this next little baby girl comes, but lately I've really been thinking if I have what it takes to mother two children who are going to be about 19 months apart. I know I have the support and help from my wonderful husband and our families, but there's still that little nasty voice in the back of my head telling me that I don't have what it takes. I don't ever want my little Livy to doubt how much I love her. And just when I start to freak myself out, I realize that I'm overthinking things. That I am capable of doing this as long as I am patient and seek that help I need.
I know I don't let Peter know how much I appreciate everything he does for me (and that is a lot), he's pretty much the perfect husband. And he's perfect for me in every way. I feel that in just the short years we've been together, that he already understands me better than my family (no offense Mechams I still love you so much). I'm so blessed to have him as my eternal companion.
I don't really know if this entry even makes sense but I needed to write some of these feelings down so that maybe I can start to make sense of them myself. =)
Peter has been my constant motivator. He's so steady and strong that I know that I can lean and rely on him no matter what. I also know that he always has a way of making me feel like the most wonderful person on Earth, even when I'm down on myself the most. I love him so much and am so grateful that he helps me want to be a better person each day.
I know I'm not perfect and that I've made a lot of mistakes and probably hurt a few people along the way. There are times when I wish I could watch my past choices so I could know who these people are. I know being hurt by others, especially others who are close to you, can be one of the most trying and scarring moments. So, I guess as cheesy/lame as it is I'm just apologizing to anyone out there that I've done anything to hurt you or those close to you and to also thank the many of you who have forgiven me for my faults and shortcomings. Most of all I am so grateful for my Savior who provided the way for me to repent for my sins and faults, and who above all else loves me inside and out no matter what; who knows what I'm capable of and will always give me little reminders that I'm not reaching for that potential, and shows me ways to get back on track.
I still have about four months left before this next little baby girl comes, but lately I've really been thinking if I have what it takes to mother two children who are going to be about 19 months apart. I know I have the support and help from my wonderful husband and our families, but there's still that little nasty voice in the back of my head telling me that I don't have what it takes. I don't ever want my little Livy to doubt how much I love her. And just when I start to freak myself out, I realize that I'm overthinking things. That I am capable of doing this as long as I am patient and seek that help I need.
I know I don't let Peter know how much I appreciate everything he does for me (and that is a lot), he's pretty much the perfect husband. And he's perfect for me in every way. I feel that in just the short years we've been together, that he already understands me better than my family (no offense Mechams I still love you so much). I'm so blessed to have him as my eternal companion.
I don't really know if this entry even makes sense but I needed to write some of these feelings down so that maybe I can start to make sense of them myself. =)
Sunday, August 22, 2010
Summer's Almost Over
I seriously can't believe how fast this summer has flown by! It has been such a wonderful mix of adventures, struggles, and joys. So, before anyone starts to read this entry I much warn you that it may be very long.
First, my grandfather ended up passing away the evening of July 3. We tell each other he wanted to go before the 4th just so he'd be able to hear all the wonderful patriotic music that he hasn't been able to hear for the past few years. I know I mentioned it in a previous entry but, my grandpa is one of the MOST patriotic people I have ever met. I can't sing the National Anthem of any other patriotic song without thinking of him, which in turn makes me cry. His funeral wasn't held until July 30 because my Nana wanted all of us to only have to travel once to Utah because we were having our Melnyk family reunion the following day.
Going to this funeral gave me such a greater appreciation for the gospel and the knowledge it beings into my life. Especially, when it comes to life after death. I have several cousins who are not members and to see their grief was so heartbreaking. My own grandfather was not a member, but he loved the church and especially the Mormon Tabernacle Choir. I know that as soon as he got to the other side he thought, "So this is what everyone's been telling me about." I'm so grateful to know that life is eternal and that I get to be with those I love forever. It's just so astounding to think about.
This is my mom with her siblings and her mom.
A week before the funeral we were able to head to Orem to spend the weekend with the entire Benson family (minus the family missionary Michael). It was so fun seeing everyone! There were babies and little ones EVERYWHERE!! It was so much fun! I'm horrible at getting pictures but I may steal some from other people's blogs (hint, hint) because it was such a great weekend. There was a lot of eating and Can-Jam (it's a super fun game!) and late night game nights. Hopefully soon I'll get pictures and go into more detail.
After my grandfather's funeral we headed to Midway, Utah for the Melnyk reunion. It was awesome! We got to go horseback riding, which was my favorite activity, and mostly a lot of swimming. We ate a lot and golfing was also a ton of fun! We also watched a lot of Shark Week on the Discovery channel. I am now officially terrified of sharks and the ocean. It was great being able to spend time with extended family, some whom I haven't seen in years. It's so great being able to bring family together and, no matter our upbringing, have such a wonderful time with each other.
Feeding the horses behind the house we were staying at.
Nana trying to get Livy to like the horsey =)
My whole family minus Drew who's serving a mission.
My mom, Livy, and me
Wouldn't it be great if I age like my mother?!
So my Aunt Nan got these matching swimsuits for Natalie and Livy. How cute are they?!
Shortly after getting home from the reunion, we went to have my ultrasound. And we got the wonderful news that we'll be having another little girl!! I'm so excited for Livy to grow up with a best friend. My next post will be about the Roundy reunion at Bear Lake.
First, my grandfather ended up passing away the evening of July 3. We tell each other he wanted to go before the 4th just so he'd be able to hear all the wonderful patriotic music that he hasn't been able to hear for the past few years. I know I mentioned it in a previous entry but, my grandpa is one of the MOST patriotic people I have ever met. I can't sing the National Anthem of any other patriotic song without thinking of him, which in turn makes me cry. His funeral wasn't held until July 30 because my Nana wanted all of us to only have to travel once to Utah because we were having our Melnyk family reunion the following day.
Going to this funeral gave me such a greater appreciation for the gospel and the knowledge it beings into my life. Especially, when it comes to life after death. I have several cousins who are not members and to see their grief was so heartbreaking. My own grandfather was not a member, but he loved the church and especially the Mormon Tabernacle Choir. I know that as soon as he got to the other side he thought, "So this is what everyone's been telling me about." I'm so grateful to know that life is eternal and that I get to be with those I love forever. It's just so astounding to think about.
This is my mom with her siblings and her mom.
A week before the funeral we were able to head to Orem to spend the weekend with the entire Benson family (minus the family missionary Michael). It was so fun seeing everyone! There were babies and little ones EVERYWHERE!! It was so much fun! I'm horrible at getting pictures but I may steal some from other people's blogs (hint, hint) because it was such a great weekend. There was a lot of eating and Can-Jam (it's a super fun game!) and late night game nights. Hopefully soon I'll get pictures and go into more detail.
After my grandfather's funeral we headed to Midway, Utah for the Melnyk reunion. It was awesome! We got to go horseback riding, which was my favorite activity, and mostly a lot of swimming. We ate a lot and golfing was also a ton of fun! We also watched a lot of Shark Week on the Discovery channel. I am now officially terrified of sharks and the ocean. It was great being able to spend time with extended family, some whom I haven't seen in years. It's so great being able to bring family together and, no matter our upbringing, have such a wonderful time with each other.
Feeding the horses behind the house we were staying at.
Nana trying to get Livy to like the horsey =)
My whole family minus Drew who's serving a mission.
My mom, Livy, and me
Wouldn't it be great if I age like my mother?!
So my Aunt Nan got these matching swimsuits for Natalie and Livy. How cute are they?!
Shortly after getting home from the reunion, we went to have my ultrasound. And we got the wonderful news that we'll be having another little girl!! I'm so excited for Livy to grow up with a best friend. My next post will be about the Roundy reunion at Bear Lake.
Wednesday, June 30, 2010
Our Biggest Girl!
Livy is walking! I should have mentioned this in the last post but she had just started to venture out and try out her legs. She is so so happy to be able to get about and go wherever she wants. It's amazing how content she is now that she's gained that independence. We love it! She's so fun to watch...she just goes from one end of the room to the next as fast as she can smiling and laughing the whole way. What a joy she is in our lives!
Not much else to report. My Grandpa Melnyk (my mom's father) has been pretty sick the last little while. He's 93 and has lived an amazing life. My mom is actually flying to California tomorrow because they don't think he'll make it through the week. Facing this has had me thinking about life and death... this will be the first family death that I'll face. I've been so blessed to have both sets of grandparents for so long in my life. My grandpa is not a member, but I just know that as soon as he gets on the others side of the veil that he'll realize what we've been trying to tell him all these years. He's one of the most honest and generous men I've ever met, and I know the Lord will know how to put him to work.
Here are some things I'm especially going to miss:
*I'm going to miss him pretending his cane is a machine gun and shooting all his relatives down. Haha! He's so great!
*His amazing stories from WWII and his travels from around the world.
*Sitting with him in his office that has stacks of the New York Times and National Geographic magazines.
*His awesome artifacts in his office (swords, other weaponry, and his random Nazi hat)
*How loud he watches television
*How whenever a patriotic song was played he'd pound on the closest surface to the rhythm
*His crazy long white eyebrows, and how'd he trim them with the scissors on his Swiss Army Knife.
*Mostly for the life lessons his taught vocally and through example. His love for this wonderful country.
*My favorit quote from Grandpa Melnyk, "Be gay (happy) and live it up!"
How GREAT is he?! He even hit the bull's eye on the target!
I know I don't tell any of my family enough, but I love them all so much and am so grateful for all they teach me and for putting up with me and my weaknesses. I love you Grandpa!
Not much else to report. My Grandpa Melnyk (my mom's father) has been pretty sick the last little while. He's 93 and has lived an amazing life. My mom is actually flying to California tomorrow because they don't think he'll make it through the week. Facing this has had me thinking about life and death... this will be the first family death that I'll face. I've been so blessed to have both sets of grandparents for so long in my life. My grandpa is not a member, but I just know that as soon as he gets on the others side of the veil that he'll realize what we've been trying to tell him all these years. He's one of the most honest and generous men I've ever met, and I know the Lord will know how to put him to work.
Here are some things I'm especially going to miss:
*I'm going to miss him pretending his cane is a machine gun and shooting all his relatives down. Haha! He's so great!
*His amazing stories from WWII and his travels from around the world.
*Sitting with him in his office that has stacks of the New York Times and National Geographic magazines.
*His awesome artifacts in his office (swords, other weaponry, and his random Nazi hat)
*How loud he watches television
*How whenever a patriotic song was played he'd pound on the closest surface to the rhythm
*His crazy long white eyebrows, and how'd he trim them with the scissors on his Swiss Army Knife.
*Mostly for the life lessons his taught vocally and through example. His love for this wonderful country.
*My favorit quote from Grandpa Melnyk, "Be gay (happy) and live it up!"
How GREAT is he?! He even hit the bull's eye on the target!
I know I don't tell any of my family enough, but I love them all so much and am so grateful for all they teach me and for putting up with me and my weaknesses. I love you Grandpa!
Wednesday, June 23, 2010
Father's Day Weekend & Anniversary
So, this past weekend we were able to go to Utah for a much needed weekend away and much needed family time with Peter's side of the family. We went down for Peter's brother, Michael's farewell. He's leaving today for the MTC and will be serving in Florida. He's going to be a GREAT missionary and touch many lives for the better. It was so great to see the Benson clan. Livy has been having a hard time warming up to people, especially if Pete and I are in the same room, so we finally handed her over to Grandma and just walked away. And I don't know how Grandmas do it but Livy fell asleep in her arms. She NEVER does that for us. She even let Grandma kiss her goodbye. =) We also got to stay with our good friends the Andersons! They are seriously some of the greatest people I know. They have a little girl just about a year older than Livy and they got along quite well. Doug and Molly are such a great example to Peter and me about so many things and we love to spend time with them, although it's never enough time for us. Thanks Doug and Molly for letting us crash at your place.
So, it was Peter and my second anniversary on the 13th. I honestly can't believe it's already been two years, but I also feel like we've been together for so much longer than that when it comes to the depth of our relationship and marriage. I am constantly blown away with how much he loves me and how much he does for me. I am so blessed to have him in my life. How I was ever happy before I caught him is beyond me. So I'm going to brag a little about my husband now.
His faith is incredible! A few months ago I hit some hard times, in the span of 2 or 3 months I ended up having a skin disorder (gross sounding I know, sorry) that no doctor could diagnose, I tore my ACL and I'm unable to have surgery due to the fact I'm uninsured, and a few weeks after that I miscarried. I was seriously at the end of my rope of hope and faith. I can't count how many nights I cried and cried on Peter's shoulder. Many of you know that I hate showing weakness to others so of course during the days I shoved everything down deep and smiled, but when poor Peter came home it all came bubbling up and I just couldn't hold it back. He constantly reminded me that Heavenly Father is aware of me and that if I ever needed comfort to turn to my Savior, Jesus Christ, because He knows exactly how I'm feeling all the time. And I really needed that reminder. And so because of my husband's amazing faith and example my testimony has grown by leaps and bounds. His love for me and the gospel pulled me through the toughest time I've faced in my life. Peter is the most understanding man I know. He never judges others and everyone loves him immediately because of his easy and open personality. He's always willing to go out of his way to help those in need and it makes me love him even more. I can't believe how blessed I am.
Throughout my trials, Peter reminded me that I'd be able to gain empathy and strength, and he was right. I've learned to not take things for granted. Like being able to walk up stairs or down the street. The little things were always forgotten until I experienced life without them. I've also learned to a greater degree that Heavenly Father's plan may not always follow or time table. And now that we're expecting a baby again I know that my body is healthier and stronger so that I can sustain the strains of pregnancy and all that goes with it. Much more so then when I miscarried. Sometimes, hardships end up being blessings, even if we don't realize it when it happens.
So, thank you Peter for being my life vest and for loving me; especially, during those few months when I felt like I couldn't love myself. My life is now complete with you in it and I can't wait for the rest of eternity! I love you!
For our celebration we got to go to Red Robin...just the two of us! =) Thank heaven for Nana and Papa (me parents) who love to watch Livy. After dinner we went bowling. Which was our favorite activity while we were dating. I surprised Peter with a new baseball glove. He hasn't gotten one since he was 7 or 8. He was so excited! It was so cute. He was like a little kid on his birthday and Christmas combined.
Also, on Monday we had our doctor's appointment and we were able to hear the baby's heartbeat. Hearing that strong, fast, little heartbeat makes this pregnancy so much more of a reality and it's such a reassurance that everything is going well. Sorry this is such a long entry but I just couldn't stop typing once I started. =) Hope everyone has a wonderful day and rest of the week. Much love!
P.S. We love comments! =)
So, it was Peter and my second anniversary on the 13th. I honestly can't believe it's already been two years, but I also feel like we've been together for so much longer than that when it comes to the depth of our relationship and marriage. I am constantly blown away with how much he loves me and how much he does for me. I am so blessed to have him in my life. How I was ever happy before I caught him is beyond me. So I'm going to brag a little about my husband now.
His faith is incredible! A few months ago I hit some hard times, in the span of 2 or 3 months I ended up having a skin disorder (gross sounding I know, sorry) that no doctor could diagnose, I tore my ACL and I'm unable to have surgery due to the fact I'm uninsured, and a few weeks after that I miscarried. I was seriously at the end of my rope of hope and faith. I can't count how many nights I cried and cried on Peter's shoulder. Many of you know that I hate showing weakness to others so of course during the days I shoved everything down deep and smiled, but when poor Peter came home it all came bubbling up and I just couldn't hold it back. He constantly reminded me that Heavenly Father is aware of me and that if I ever needed comfort to turn to my Savior, Jesus Christ, because He knows exactly how I'm feeling all the time. And I really needed that reminder. And so because of my husband's amazing faith and example my testimony has grown by leaps and bounds. His love for me and the gospel pulled me through the toughest time I've faced in my life. Peter is the most understanding man I know. He never judges others and everyone loves him immediately because of his easy and open personality. He's always willing to go out of his way to help those in need and it makes me love him even more. I can't believe how blessed I am.
Throughout my trials, Peter reminded me that I'd be able to gain empathy and strength, and he was right. I've learned to not take things for granted. Like being able to walk up stairs or down the street. The little things were always forgotten until I experienced life without them. I've also learned to a greater degree that Heavenly Father's plan may not always follow or time table. And now that we're expecting a baby again I know that my body is healthier and stronger so that I can sustain the strains of pregnancy and all that goes with it. Much more so then when I miscarried. Sometimes, hardships end up being blessings, even if we don't realize it when it happens.
So, thank you Peter for being my life vest and for loving me; especially, during those few months when I felt like I couldn't love myself. My life is now complete with you in it and I can't wait for the rest of eternity! I love you!
For our celebration we got to go to Red Robin...just the two of us! =) Thank heaven for Nana and Papa (me parents) who love to watch Livy. After dinner we went bowling. Which was our favorite activity while we were dating. I surprised Peter with a new baseball glove. He hasn't gotten one since he was 7 or 8. He was so excited! It was so cute. He was like a little kid on his birthday and Christmas combined.
Also, on Monday we had our doctor's appointment and we were able to hear the baby's heartbeat. Hearing that strong, fast, little heartbeat makes this pregnancy so much more of a reality and it's such a reassurance that everything is going well. Sorry this is such a long entry but I just couldn't stop typing once I started. =) Hope everyone has a wonderful day and rest of the week. Much love!
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Thursday, June 3, 2010
I can't decide...
I've been debating whether to keep going with this blog. I don't know if people even read it and I don't know if I'm doing it because I want to or because I wanted to be cool like everyone else =) I guess I'll just wait it out.
Ok now that I've put that out there, just a little update on the Benson family. Peter is approaching midterms and he's feeling the pressure of the 18 credits he's taking this semester. Yet, through it all he always finds time to play with Livy and to spend some time with me snuggling on the love sac. He's such an incredible man, I still can't believe how blessed I am to have him in my life. He's also working two jobs so that I can stay at home. Everytime I mention that I should find work he just says, "You already have a full time job taking care of Livy and me." I just love him, and we've been lucky enough that I haven't had to work yet.
Livy...oh my sweet Livy Lu. She is getting so close to walking! I can't believe how big she is getting. After every nap she loves to just sit and cuddle with me while we watch a movie and I love these special moments because I know they won't last forever. She loves chocolate milk and apple juice and her favorite snack is either cold pees or mandarin oranges. Everytime she smiles it melts my heart and Peter's. She's got her daddy wrapped around her little finger and can get him to do just about anything. She's gotten very good at shaking her head "no" and nodding "yes" and that has been wonderful! It's really opened up the communication for us. I just can't get enough of her.
As for me, I'm loving being a mom and wife, which I may not do well all the time but I know I'm getting better every day. This pregnancy has been great as far as morning sickness goes (haven't had any) but a struggle with back pain, but Peter's always quick to offer a massage, so I'll admit I play it up a little bit. I'm in a place where things have happened that have made me stop to think about who I am and what my interests are and should be. But I know that even if I can't figure that out, I have a wonderful husband who loves me, a daughter who makes my face sticky with kisses, a new little baby on the way, and a Father in Heaven who loves me no matter what. It's a pretty GREAT life!
Ok now that I've put that out there, just a little update on the Benson family. Peter is approaching midterms and he's feeling the pressure of the 18 credits he's taking this semester. Yet, through it all he always finds time to play with Livy and to spend some time with me snuggling on the love sac. He's such an incredible man, I still can't believe how blessed I am to have him in my life. He's also working two jobs so that I can stay at home. Everytime I mention that I should find work he just says, "You already have a full time job taking care of Livy and me." I just love him, and we've been lucky enough that I haven't had to work yet.
Livy...oh my sweet Livy Lu. She is getting so close to walking! I can't believe how big she is getting. After every nap she loves to just sit and cuddle with me while we watch a movie and I love these special moments because I know they won't last forever. She loves chocolate milk and apple juice and her favorite snack is either cold pees or mandarin oranges. Everytime she smiles it melts my heart and Peter's. She's got her daddy wrapped around her little finger and can get him to do just about anything. She's gotten very good at shaking her head "no" and nodding "yes" and that has been wonderful! It's really opened up the communication for us. I just can't get enough of her.
As for me, I'm loving being a mom and wife, which I may not do well all the time but I know I'm getting better every day. This pregnancy has been great as far as morning sickness goes (haven't had any) but a struggle with back pain, but Peter's always quick to offer a massage, so I'll admit I play it up a little bit. I'm in a place where things have happened that have made me stop to think about who I am and what my interests are and should be. But I know that even if I can't figure that out, I have a wonderful husband who loves me, a daughter who makes my face sticky with kisses, a new little baby on the way, and a Father in Heaven who loves me no matter what. It's a pretty GREAT life!
Monday, May 24, 2010
3 + 1 = 4
So, we are excited to announce that we have another little angel on the way to us! =) We were planning on waiting til we found out what we were having to announce it, but Peter got so excited after getting out first ultrasound that he jsut had to tell the world. I'm so happy he's so excited! My due date is December 23 so we have a Christmas baby on the way.
Thursday, May 20, 2010
1 Year Old Pictures
Our friend Whitney took these up on campus, and she did an amazing job. These were her favorites but there'll be more on the way. Thanks Whitney!
We think she's the cutest little thing on earth...we are slightly biased =) We love you Livy Lu!
We think she's the cutest little thing on earth...we are slightly biased =) We love you Livy Lu!
Saturday, May 15, 2010
One Whole Year!
I can't believe it's been a whole year since our little princess came into our lives. She has been such a joy and blessing to have in our lives. When I married Peter I never thought my heart could hold much more love for anyone else, cause let's face it, Peter's my perfect man, but when the nurse handed me my little Livy, I knew right then and there I would do anything for her and that I finally understood the love my own wonderful mother has for me. I felt like the Grinch when his heart grew so big it broke whatever was measuring it =)
At her latest appointment she was 28 inches tall and 24 pounds. She's in the 95th percentile for weight and height combined. She's my healthy little girl.
Peter taught her how to make this face. She's even got to the point that when I say, "Where's Daddy?" she'll scrunch her little nose. SO CUTE!!
At her latest appointment she was 28 inches tall and 24 pounds. She's in the 95th percentile for weight and height combined. She's my healthy little girl.
Peter taught her how to make this face. She's even got to the point that when I say, "Where's Daddy?" she'll scrunch her little nose. SO CUTE!!
Thursday, April 15, 2010
Easter, Farewell, and Birthday
April's always been a busy month but this one seems even more so. One of my brothers, Andrew, left for his mission to Charleston, West Virginia this month and he is so excited and so ready to go. He is such an amazing young man and I know he'll be an amazing missionary who will touch many lives.
We had the opportunity to so to Utah conference weekend with some friends and it was so fun! Livy was thrown off her sleeping schedule a little bit as usual whenever we go anywhere but we still had a great time. That Sunday I surprised Peter and Livy with Easter baskets. Livy loved putting the basket on her head and playing peek-a-boo more than the little toys I got her, but she was so stinkin cute with it. I gave Peter all of his favorite candy, and he loved it! He didn't grow up with Easter baskets so I think it makes him feel like a little kid again to get something like that. It's hard to surprise him so when I do I'm more excited than him when he finally discovers whatever it is I've hidden for him.
My birthday was on Tuesday, the 13th, and Peter just let me be a lazy bump on a log for the day. =) I did have a migraine most of the day but Peter told me we can celebrate my birthday this weekend with dinner and a night on the town, so I'm pretty excited for that. He also got me a bicycle for us to go on rides together, Pres. Uchtdorf's new book The Remarkable Soul Of A Woman, and a journal that we're going to turn into our family's "Blessing Journal". Our goal is to write in it hopefully, each night and write down the little blessings we experience throughout the day. We got the idea in one of the Ensign and we both loved the idea because sometimes it's so hard to remember all of those little miracles and blessing we get to experience everyday.
We had the opportunity to so to Utah conference weekend with some friends and it was so fun! Livy was thrown off her sleeping schedule a little bit as usual whenever we go anywhere but we still had a great time. That Sunday I surprised Peter and Livy with Easter baskets. Livy loved putting the basket on her head and playing peek-a-boo more than the little toys I got her, but she was so stinkin cute with it. I gave Peter all of his favorite candy, and he loved it! He didn't grow up with Easter baskets so I think it makes him feel like a little kid again to get something like that. It's hard to surprise him so when I do I'm more excited than him when he finally discovers whatever it is I've hidden for him.
My birthday was on Tuesday, the 13th, and Peter just let me be a lazy bump on a log for the day. =) I did have a migraine most of the day but Peter told me we can celebrate my birthday this weekend with dinner and a night on the town, so I'm pretty excited for that. He also got me a bicycle for us to go on rides together, Pres. Uchtdorf's new book The Remarkable Soul Of A Woman, and a journal that we're going to turn into our family's "Blessing Journal". Our goal is to write in it hopefully, each night and write down the little blessings we experience throughout the day. We got the idea in one of the Ensign and we both loved the idea because sometimes it's so hard to remember all of those little miracles and blessing we get to experience everyday.
Thursday, April 1, 2010
Here we go
So, I hope that I can be better at keeping this updated than I am with my journal. Just an update on the Bensons: Livy will be 11 months old on the April 6th and I can't believe how fast this last year has flown by having her in our lives. She has Peter wrapped around her little finger and pretty much everyone who meets her. She is such a good baby for us and hardly ever whines. Well, except when mom leaves the room without her. Thankfully she's picked up crawling very well so she follows me from room to room. She's really loving walking with the help of someone holding her hands. I'm hoping she'll be walking by summer so we can having some great adventures.
Peter has finally settled on a career path. Yea!! He is going to be a Marriage and Family Counselor. He is going to be so great at it. He's the most patient, loving man I've ever met and we're so excited to be heading toward this career. He'll finish up at BYU-Idaho April 2011 and then we'll be off for an internship and then back to school for his Master's and eventually Doctorate. We're praying he'll be accepted into BYU-Provo for that. Peter has also been my wonderful teaching partner for our primary class for the past two years. Our class this year is made up of 10 ambitious 4/5 year olds. Peter has become the "security" of the class while I get to teach. They are the cutest little kids and I love going to church each week. They reach us more than we teach them most of the time.l
As for me, I've been at home loving being a mom. I am constantly reminded of how blessed I am to be able to do this at this time. I'm kept on my toes since Livy's ablt to get around. She loves to explore and get into as many things as possible. I've also just been letting my knee heal. I tore my ACL back in the beginning of January and wasn't able to get surgery so we're letting my body heal itself. Through several differetn trials that have presented themselves over the last 4 or 5 months my testimony has been strengthened by leaps and bounds. I am so grateful for the role the Atonement plays in my life, especially in times of trial, fear, and pain. I have truly come to understand it on a whole nother level because of things I've endured and continue to endure. The gospel is incredible and I can't imagine my life without it.
Here are just a few pictures of Livy from the last few months.
Peter has finally settled on a career path. Yea!! He is going to be a Marriage and Family Counselor. He is going to be so great at it. He's the most patient, loving man I've ever met and we're so excited to be heading toward this career. He'll finish up at BYU-Idaho April 2011 and then we'll be off for an internship and then back to school for his Master's and eventually Doctorate. We're praying he'll be accepted into BYU-Provo for that. Peter has also been my wonderful teaching partner for our primary class for the past two years. Our class this year is made up of 10 ambitious 4/5 year olds. Peter has become the "security" of the class while I get to teach. They are the cutest little kids and I love going to church each week. They reach us more than we teach them most of the time.l
As for me, I've been at home loving being a mom. I am constantly reminded of how blessed I am to be able to do this at this time. I'm kept on my toes since Livy's ablt to get around. She loves to explore and get into as many things as possible. I've also just been letting my knee heal. I tore my ACL back in the beginning of January and wasn't able to get surgery so we're letting my body heal itself. Through several differetn trials that have presented themselves over the last 4 or 5 months my testimony has been strengthened by leaps and bounds. I am so grateful for the role the Atonement plays in my life, especially in times of trial, fear, and pain. I have truly come to understand it on a whole nother level because of things I've endured and continue to endure. The gospel is incredible and I can't imagine my life without it.
Here are just a few pictures of Livy from the last few months.
Wednesday, March 24, 2010
So really...
I don't know anything about blogging =) I just love reading everyone's and finding out what's going on with everyone and seeing your families and milestones and I wanted to do the same. I also think it's as close to a consistant journal I'm going to get =) So, if anyone has the patience and the time to maybe tutor me a little bit I would really love it! I'll hopefully post again soon with more on my family.
Saturday, February 6, 2010
We're blogging!
So I finally gave in and decided to start the Peter and Heidi Benson family blog. So, as of right now I'm still learning all the ins and outs so bare with me for the next little while cause it's probably going to be pretty boring =)
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